Life will be easier and more enjoyable if you don’t focus on these things. Read along with me to find out what they are.
1. The approval of others
Who cares what people think of you? If you are happy with the decisions you made, then you made the right choice, no matter what others say. Imagine how much energy you spend trying to read other people’s thoughts, and you still can’t guess.
Listen to advice – please, but don’t let others decide how you live.
2. Anger and resentment
Anger destroys from the inside out, so learn to put up with annoying people. This does not mean that you can let others take advantage of you, not lead to a scandal. You need to deal with the hatred, resentment, and pain that remains inside. Remember, the one who is angry controls you.
Some relish their grievances like a gourmet meal, and this does not lead to anything good. Such feelings only harm you, not those to whom they are directed.
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3. Ideal body image
How often do you fall for the beauty industry trends, the opinions of your relatives and friends? The body is the little that really belongs to you. Who, if not you, decide how it should look? It only matters how you feel. The rest is ashes.
4. Dreams of a perfect partner
Everyone has a set of qualities in their heads that an ideal partner should have. But life usually spits on these lists. To be happy, you must love a person with all your heart, feel easy and comfortable around him, and he must accept you as you are. At least the first two points coincided – great, you found what you need.
5. Ideal life
Just as there is no perfect partner, there is no perfect destiny. Life is what you put into it, so if you’re not willing to work hard and put in the effort, then you’ve decided to be unhappy.
You can create your own world, the most beautiful of all worlds.
6. Wealth as an end in itself
Many people live with the idea of becoming millionaires. It’s not a bad goal, but it will take a lot of work to achieve it. Don’t get hung up on large amounts. The main thing is to find a business that will be your passion and fulfill yourself; then the money will come.
7. Hope for good luck
Don’t wait until you’re lucky. Appreciate your life and be grateful for what you already have.
Excuses are your attempts not to feel like shit when you don’t do something that should have been done long ago.
9. Thoughts on the ex
You broke up for a reason. Remembering your former love, think not about the person but about the lessons that life has taught you. Don’t get hung up on feelings for someone who will never be with you. It will only ruin the new relationship and make you suffer.
It’s hard to admit that you were wrong about something. It’s just that other people had more knowledge or the ability to do something right. So stop resisting. Just take it for granted. The less stubbornness you have, the more open you are to something new. Think about how much you can experience and feel if you understand and accept someone’s opinion other than your own.
Adapted and translated by The Cop Cart Staff
Sources: Life hacker